Gay Relationships | Effective Communication Skills
I lean away from people.
I don't like intense eye contact.
I seldom gesture while talking.
I speak with slowly measured words.
I tend to speak softly.
I pause frequently when talking.
I state my opinion carefully.
I exert less pressure for action.
I ask you to do something.
I lean towards people.
I make and keep eye contact.
I make forceful gestures.
I speak quickly; I have lots to say.
I tend to speak loudly.
I barely pause to breath when talking.
I strongly state my opinion.
I pressure for action and decisions.
I tell you to do something.
I'm stoic with few facial expressions.
I keep opinions to myself.
I sit and stand straight or erect.
My voices pitch seldom changes.
I speak with consistent volume.
I refer less to feelings.
I use fact and logic as rationale.
I speak precisely about times/dates.
I limit small talk and stories.
I have animated facial expressions.
I freely dish out what I think.
I relax my posture and body.
My voice pitch varies greatly.
I speak with varied volume.
I refer more to feelings.
I use opinions/people as rationale.
I speak casually about times/dates.
I tell stories and make small talk.

Find Your Spot!

Think about how you act or react while in a relationship. With this in mind, click on the radio button next to pick one from which sentence best describes you. Be honest! Only you really knows you!

Remember: There are no right or wrong answers.


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